All different Flavors

All women's bodies were not created equal. We weren't all meant to be the same. Our fingerprints, personalty, style, and bodies are all unique.

It is difficult to ignore, how many near perfect bodies are on display on every form of media outlet and in daily life. Nips, tucks, fills, and lifts are more affordable and safer, so it's common culture to fix imperfections.

Women who go under the knife are entitled to do that which makes them more confident and are not subject to judgement in this post. If you're expecting me to bash them, stop reading now.

Some women are actually very open about the work they do to encourage women who are considering surgery but are afraid to make that decision, so even in this area, we celebrate women who chose to use their platforms for empowerment.

The best advice I can offer to those who have no plans of surgical makeovers and are unhappy with their appearance, is that comparison is the thief of joy.

While front row to all the sexy-body-ladies in media, always consider they may have gone under the knife to achieve their look, or they may have pushed their bodies from scratch with a healthy lifestyle. Either way it is hard work or a costly/risky feat.

If you are not interested in doing either, appreciate your uniqueness, embrace where you are today, dress the body you have now ( there's no correlation with size and style, you can have great style no matter your size), and fill your spirit with gratitude for your other strengths.

We all have insecurities, even those in great shape, they have their own internal battles, so you're not alone.

Essentially, the work is best completed on the inside.